BONDAGE

The intimate touching in BDSM or role play during bondage increases and amplify the release Endorphins, which is anti-stress and pain relief chemicals (hormones), creating a healthier level of physical and mental wellbeing.

If you feel adventurous, or seeking new heights of that perfect erotic contentment, spice up your journey with our best collection of bondage sex toys for every stage/level of experience. From handcuffs and restraints, to spankers, crops, ticklers and floggers, or sex position aid, we choose carefully with the best interest in quality and safety in mind. Perfect for individuals (Domination and submission, or seductive power exchange) who are new or expert to BDSM world of kink and fetish and fantasies. 

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TOUGHAGE Bondage Play Kit 10 Piece
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Nappa leather is a softer and smoother option than leather. Being tied up allows your partner to take charge and do anything they want to you. All you have to do is to enjoy the amazing sensation of being helplessly aroused!  This...

$129.95$48.95
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TOUGHAGE Bed Restraint kit
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Explore the world of bondage with this versatile restraint kit. Featuring an under-mattress restraint system designed to bind arms and legs securely, it offers discreet excitement - just tuck the cuffs under the mattress to keep things hidden until the...

$69.95$29.95
ROOMFUN Premium Nylon Shibari Bondage Rope (8m)
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

  Absolutely stunning Rope. You'd never imagine that you'll say this. Great for artists who use rope to design stunning geometric patterns that bind and accentuate the curves of each body. Or for beginners to practice and be in control...

$39.95$16.95
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Fetish Fantasy Series Wraparound Mattress Restraints - Limited Edition
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PRODUCT TYPE: SENSATION PLAY

Transform your bed into a passion playground and let the games begin! These wraparound mattress restraints open a world of possibilities for you and your lover. Experience the thrill of bondage and take turns role-playing - one minute you're in...

$99.95$58.95
TOUGHAGE Fantasy Series Bondage Tape
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Great for bondage, role play or any type of restraint aid. This non-sticky bondage tape will not pull any hair or leave a sticky residue that ruins your moment.  Comes with Pink and Black colour.  Length: 25mWidth: 4.9cm

$29.95$16.95
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Premium Silky Bondage Rope
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

  This superior silky bondage rope promises to surprise even the most seasoned BDSM enthusiast. Crafted with soft, durable cotton, the rope is designed for smooth, skin-caressing containment. Offering 10 metres of rope, the extra-length allows novices and veterans to...

$49.95$19.95
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Premium Hemp Bondage Rope
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

With this super-soft and silky Deluxe Silky bondage Rope, your kinky creation will surprise yourself. Its soft yet durable cotton is designed to go around your bare skin comfortably, offering hours of enjoyment and exploratory restraint play for beginners and experts alike. Key Features:...

$49.95$19.95
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YOUR HIGHNESS Chain Chest Harness
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Welcome to the Your Highness collection - where style meets sensuality! Our expertly-crafted pieces are the perfect blend of sultry and sophisticated.  

$75.00$35.95
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YOUR HIGHNESS Body Harness with Cuffs
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Fully adjustable harness for the perfect fit to almost everyone. Be yourself, this is designed for perfect erotic exposure and restraint. Integrate with other restraints easily. 

$99.95$48.95
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OMYHONEY Male Chastity Cage - Spiral
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PRODUCT TYPE: SENSATION PLAY

Spiral shaped penis chastity cage, crafted from high-quality zinc alloy. This sleek and sturdy device promises to deliver unparalleled sensations of satisfaction and excitement. With a range of ring sizes to choose from, this ergonomic lock ensures a comfortable fit for...

$68.95$24.95
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Roomfun Ostrich Feather
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PRODUCT TYPE: SENSATION PLAY

Discover the playful allure of the Roomfun Ostrich Feather in black. This isn’t just any feather tickler, it’s a sensuous tool designed to awaken your senses and spark excitement. Use it for gentle sensation play or teasing tickles, its soft,...

$46.95$24.95
ROOMFUN Body Restraint kit
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Ever struggled with tying those tricky knots? Don’t let that slow down your fun! The ROOMFUN Body Restraint Kit comes with patented accessories designed to make restraint effortless and enjoyable. Whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned pro, this kit...

$69.95$36.95
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ROOMFUN Magical Shock Therapy Kit
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PRODUCT TYPE: SENSATION PLAY

Have you been hunting for this? Give your sex life a "charge" with this incredible beginner's electro-sex kit.  This electric stimulation Shock Therapy Kit is perfect for first timer and those new to e-stimulation. The easy to read LCD screen...

$129.95$73.95
ROOMFUN Body Restraint kit
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Ever struggled with tying those tricky knots? Don’t let that slow down your fun! The ROOMFUN Body Restraint Kit comes with patented accessories designed to make restraint effortless and enjoyable. Whether you’re a beginner or a seasoned pro, this kit...

$69.95$36.95
Roomfun Punishment Electric Buzzing Stimulation Wand
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Elevate your BDSM sessions with the Roomfun Punishment Electric Buzzing Stimulation Wand - designed for those who crave an electrifying mix of pleasure and pain. This innovative device seamlessly combines an electric prod with a buzzing arc light, delivering a...

$169.95$69.95
ROOMFUN Passionate Electric Pulse Crop
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Unleash your adventurous side with the ROOMFUN Passionate Electric Pulse Crop. Perfect for SM enthusiasts and role-playing scenarios, this electric baton lets you take control and set the mood. Whether you’re playfully punishing or being punished, its electric pulses add...

$74.95$39.95
ROOMFUN Queens Crop
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PRODUCT TYPE: SENSATION PLAY

Durable and light, the ROOMFUN Queens Crop is set to become your go to toy for all levels of BDSM play. Its sleek design allows it to glide effortlessly through the air, delivering a sharp, satisfying impact that leaves a...

$49.95$23.95
Master Series Silver Sensation Wartenberg Wheel
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Wake up your partner's senses with this Wartenberg wheel! The metal wheel of needles are blunt enough to use on the skin but prickly enough to heighten sensation and give them goosebumps across their flesh! Use it during sensation-play and...

$59.95$32.95
OMYHONEY Male Chastity Cage - Spiral
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PRODUCT TYPE: SENSATION PLAY

Spiral shaped penis chastity cage, crafted from high-quality zinc alloy. This sleek and sturdy device promises to deliver unparalleled sensations of satisfaction and excitement. With a range of ring sizes to choose from, this ergonomic lock ensures a comfortable fit for...

$68.95$24.95
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YOUR HIGHNESS Open-Cup Body Chains Harness Set
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Adjustable press studs body chains harness with matching briefs for the perfect fit. Be yourself, this is designed for perfect erotic exposure and restraint. Attach with other restraints with O rings. 

$79.95$35.95
Seduction Series Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar - 25 Inch
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Expand your bondage play to new creative positions with this wrist and ankle spreader bar.  This steel spreader bar is designed to keep your partner's legs spread apart and keep hands restrained at the front or behind between the legs. The...

$99.95$58.95
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Behind-The-Back Collar to Wrist Restraints
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Premium heavy-duty PU leather cuffs and collar with adjustable buckle closure for the perfect fit.  Wrist to collar position restraint for secure bondage play. Can be worn to secure wrists in front or behind the wearer's body. Adjustable central strap enables varying...

$75.95$29.95
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YOUR HIGHNESS Sexy Leg Harness - Black
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Adjustable harness for the perfect fit. Be yourself, this is designed for perfect erotic exposure and restraint. Easy integration with other restraints with O rings. 

$59.95$29.95
Fifty Shades of Grey Play Nice Satin and Lace Wrist Cuffs
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PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE

Satin and Lace Wrist Cuffs by Fifty Shades of Grey  In celebration of a decade of erotic discovery and fulfilment, the Fifty Shades of Grey Official Pleasure Collection invites you to immerse yourself in the Fifty Shades experience.Curated by E...

$39.95$30.95

Control, surrender, and everything in between - your kink, your rules

Whether you're a curious beginner or a seasoned kinkster, Lovestash’s Bondage & BDSM collection is here to take your pleasure to new, consensual heights. From soft restraints to hardcore impact play gear, our range is carefully curated to bring you excitement, trust, and intense satisfaction, solo or with a partner. Dive into this world of control, surrender, sensation, and power play with our premium, body-safe gear made for all experience levels.


🔒 Handcuffs & Restraints for Power Play

Start your exploration with our wide range of handcuffs and restraints, perfect for teasing control and exploring power dynamics. From soft, adjustable cuffs to metal handcuffs, our collection lets you play it playful or intense. Add ankle cuffs, spreader bars, or bed restraint systems to turn up the heat and create full-body surrender scenarios that keep your partner right where you want them.


🧶 Bondage Ropes, Blindfolds & Gags

For sensory exploration and elegant restraint, our bondage ropes, blindfolds, and gags offer endless creative options. Discover silky rope for beautiful shibari, breathable ball gags for submissive play, and blackout blindfolds to heighten every touch. Removing sight and sound shifts focus to sensation, intensifying every stroke, whisper, or tease.


🎁 Bondage Kits for Beginners & Explorers

Not sure where to start? Our ready-to-play bondage kits offer the perfect introduction. These pre-packed bundles include essentials like cuffs, blindfolds, floggers, and sometimes a surprise or two. Great for couples testing boundaries or anyone who wants an all-in-one experience to try BDSM without overwhelm.


🪶 Whips, Paddles, Spankers & Ticklers

Impact play combines pain, pleasure, and anticipation, and we've got the tools to do it right. Choose from leather whips, paddles, silicone spankers, or feather ticklers depending on your desired intensity. Explore soft teasing or sharp sensations. Many items include textured surfaces or dual sides for variety in every stroke.


🛋️ Sex Furniture for Positioning & Restraint

Looking to take your bondage sessions to the next level? Our versatile sex furniture helps support complex positions, deep penetration, and immersive scenes. From wedges and slings to bondage chairs and under-bed restraints, these pieces are designed for function, durability, and long-term kinky fun.


🔐 Chastity Devices for Control & Tease

Explore the ultimate in control with chastity devices. Whether you're practicing orgasm denial, long-distance power exchange, or daily submission rituals, we offer beginner-friendly and advanced cages, belts, and lockable devices. Designed for comfort, security, and psychological intensity, they’re key (literally) to deeper Dom/sub dynamics.


💗 Nipple & Clitoral Play Accessories

Ready to add some edge to your stimulation? Our nipple clamps, clit suckers, clamps, and chains enhance blood flow and sensitivity. Adjustable tension options mean you can go from light pressure to intense sensations in seconds. Pair with restraints or wear them solo, these tools tease, punish, and please in all the right ways.


⚙️ Sex Machines & Swings for Full-Throttle Play

For the truly adventurous, our sex machines and swings deliver unmatched intensity. From motor-powered thrusting machines to over-the-door and full-suspension swings, these are the ultimate tools for hands-free, gravity-defying, all-angle pleasure. Perfect for power-exchange scenes or high-level solo sessions.


Discover Your Boundaries & Go Beyond Them

Every piece in our Bondage & BDSM collection is chosen with care to ensure safety, satisfaction, and deep connection, whether you're tying up your partner for the first time or building your dream dungeon. Explore kink with confidence, creativity, and consent. All gear is shipped discreetly from our New Zealand HQ, and always curated for your pleasure and empowerment.

FAQ - Bondage & BDSM

What is Bondage & BDSM and how do I get started?
Bondage & BDSM is a form of consensual kink play that may involve restraint, dominance and submission, roleplay, or sensory stimulation. Beginners can start with soft restraints like handcuffs or bondage tape, and explore light play with blindfolds, ticklers, or paddles. Communication and consent are keydiscuss boundaries and always use safe words.
Are bondage toys safe to use for beginners?
Yes, bondage toys are safe when used correctly and consensually. For beginners, look for items with quick-release features, soft padding, and user-friendly designs like adjustable cuffs, Velcro restraints, and body-safe materials. Always prioritize comfort and start slowly.
What’s the difference between bondage ropes and restraints?
Bondage ropes are typically used for artistic or intricate restraint play like shibari or rope bondage, offering more control and creativity. Restraints, like cuffs or straps, are faster to apply and more practical for everyday kink play. Both serve the purpose of limiting movement but vary in flexibility and style.
What are essential items in a beginner bondage kit?
A good beginner bondage kit typically includes handcuffs or wrist restraints, a blindfold, a gag, a flogger or paddle, and sometimes bondage rope. These essentials allow users to explore restraint, sensory deprivation, and light impact play in a safe and structured way.
How do I choose the right flogger, paddle, or whip?
Choose based on your preferred intensity and experience level. Floggers with soft falls are gentler and ideal for beginners. Paddles offer thuddy impact and precision, while whips provide sharper stings and require more control. Material, handle comfort, and length all affect sensation.
What safety tips should I follow during BDSM play?
Establish a safe word or signal, keep communication open, and never use restraints without a quick-release option. Avoid tying around the neck or restricting blood flow. Aftercare is also importantcheck in with your partner, hydrate, and offer emotional reassurance.
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