BETTER SEX

A happy and healthy sex life is a cornerstone of a fulfilling relationship. Elevate your intimate experiences with our "Better Sex" collection, featuring popular, safe, and effective products designed to add excitement and new sensations.

Our extensive range includes sex position aids, pleasure-enhancing lubricants and lotions, orgasm balms, and toy cleaners. Strengthen your pelvic floor with kegel exerciser (ben wa) balls, and set the mood with seductive candles and performance costumes. Spice things up with adult games and unique gifts that make every moment more enjoyable. Whether you are looking to explore new positions, intensify orgasms, or simply have more fun with your partner, our curated selection has everything you need for better sex.

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Intimate Earth Bloom Aromatherapy Massage Oil 120ml
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EROS Prolong 101 Spray 30ml
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Better Sex Starts Here: Explore Lovestash NZ's Complete Collection of Pleasure-Enhancing Essentials


At Lovestash, we believe better sex should be accessible, exciting, and empowering for every body. Whether you're exploring something new, deepening your connection, or simply seeking to enhance your own pleasure, our Better Sex collection brings together everything you need for a more satisfying, comfortable, and confident experience.

From condoms for safe and satisfying sex to intimate care products that keep things fresh before, during, and after play, this is your go-to destination for sexual wellness essentials that go beyond just toys.

Condoms for Comfort and Confidence

Our range of premium condoms includes ultra-thin, ribbed, extra-large, and latex-free condoms to suit every body and preference. Whether you’re looking for added stimulation, a natural feel, or vegan-friendly options, you’ll find trusted brands designed to protect pleasure without compromise.

Sex Furniture for Deeper Pleasure

Explore sex furniture and positioning pillows that support deeper penetration, new angles, and ergonomic comfort. From discreet wedges to full-size loungers and under-bed restraint systems, our range of sex furniture is designed to unlock new dimensions of intimacy.

Sexy Gifts, Couples Games & Massage

Turn up the fun with sexy gifts and couples’ games that spark connection and curiosity. Whether it’s a romantic massage, a cheeky date-night game, or a playful gift kit, these products make it easy to explore intimacy with your partner. Add a bottle of aphrodisiac massage oil or a massage candle for the ultimate sensual experience.

Stimulating Gels for Better Vulva/Female Orgasms

Enhance every sensation with arousal gels and stimulating creams designed for vulvas. These body-safe products increase blood flow, sensitivity, and pleasure — helping many experience more intense or easier-to-reach orgasms. Perfect for solo or partnered play.

Delay Sprays for Better Penis/Male Orgasms

Take control of your climax with delay sprays, prolongers, and other performance-enhancing products for penis owners. Whether you're looking to last longer, boost confidence, or intensify sensation, our curated range includes gentle desensitizing sprays and effective topical gels.

Better Anal Sex with Relaxing Gels & Lubes

Comfort is key to pleasurable anal play. Our collection includes anal relaxing gels, thicker anal lubes, and beginner-friendly training kits designed to ease tension and increase comfort. Safe, body-positive, and perfect for all experience levels.

Sex Toy Cleaners & Intimate Care

Better sex includes better hygiene. Shop antibacterial toy cleaners, intimate wipes, vulva moisturizers, and aftercare essentials that keep things clean, fresh, and worry-free. These products support your long-term sexual wellness and are ideal for post-play comfort.

Foreplay Enhancers for Full-Body Pleasure

Pleasure starts before penetration. Discover foreplay tools like feather ticklers, blindfolds, warming gels, and kissable lubes to ignite desire and build anticipation. Ideal for couples looking to explore deeper connection and turn up the heat together.

Why Our Better Sex Collection Is Different

At Lovestash, we go beyond the basics. We’ve curated a collection that blends trusted performance with inclusive pleasure — ensuring that people of all genders, orientations, and experience levels feel seen, supported, and satisfied.

You’ll find:

  • Body-safe, high-quality products
  • Discreet shipping throughout New Zealand
  • Expert curation with real pleasure in mind
  • A wide range of tools for solo, couples, and curious explorers

✨ Ready to Level Up Your Intimacy?
Whether you're searching for the best delay spray in NZ, a vegan condom, or a luxurious arousal gel for vulva pleasure, our Better Sex category has it all.
Explore the full collection now and enjoy better confidence, comfort, and connection — with the support of Lovestash.

FAQ - Better Sex

What products enhance vulva or clitoral sensitivity for better orgasms?

Stimulating gels and arousal gels are specially formulated to enhance clitoral and vulva sensitivity by increasing blood flow and nerve response. These products create tingling, warming, or cooling effects and can be used during foreplay or solo play to intensify sensation and improve orgasm quality.

How do delay sprays and prolongers work for male stamina?

Delay sprays and prolongers are designed to reduce penile sensitivity without numbing pleasure entirely. They help men last longer during intercourse by using mild desensitizing agents that allow better control over climax and can improve confidence and satisfaction.

What is sex furniture and how does it improve intimacy?

Sex furniture includes items like wedges, cushions, and positioners that support the body and allow for deeper angles, better comfort, and more creative positions. It enhances intimacy by reducing strain and adding variety to sexual exploration.

What are the best foreplay enhancers for couples?

Foreplay enhancers include items like massage oils, scented candles, feather ticklers, vibrating toys, and arousal balms. These tools help increase connection, build anticipation, and enhance physical and emotional intimacy during partnered play.

Why is it important to use sex toy cleaners and intimate hygiene products?

Sex toy cleaners are specifically formulated to remove bacteria and maintain the integrity of delicate toy materials, unlike regular soap. Intimate hygiene products such as pH-balanced washes and wipes help maintain vulva and anal health, reduce irritation, and keep you feeling fresh and confident.

What types of sexy games and gifts are great for spicing up a relationship?

Sexy gifts and adult games can include romantic card games, dice, couple’s challenges, massage kits, and playful accessories. They’re designed to break routine, spark laughter, and explore new forms of pleasure together.

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