LUBES

Lubricants are great treat for all type of intimate play. Try our selection of lubes, lotions and essentials with flavours, aromas and different sensation stimulations for enhanced foreplay, smooth penetration and added glide to touches. We stock Organic lubes, silicone based, water based, oil based lubricant from the most popular brands like Uberlube, Eros, High On Love, Intimate Earth, Doc Johnson, Pjur, System Jo, Tenga, Trojan, Wet Stuff, Swiss Navy and Share Satisfaction.

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Share Satisfaction Water Based Lubricant
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Intimate Earth Discover G-Spot Stimulating Serum 30ml
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pjur Med Vegan Glide - 100ml
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Intimate Earth Hydra Natural Glide 120ml
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Lelo Pleasure Enhancing Serum - Clitoral Stimulating Gel
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EROS BIO and VEGAN AQUA 100ml Water Based Lubricant
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pjur WOMAN Lust Intense 15ml
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Sensuva On xXxTREME Natural Arousal Oil with Antidote 5ml
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pjur Med Repair Glide - 100ml
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Anal Douche / Cleaner
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TENGA HOLE LOTION 170ml
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System Jo H2o Anal Lubricant
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Uberlube Luxury Lubricant
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Sliquid Natural Tsunami Ultra Thick Gel 125ml
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Intimate Earth Discover G-Spot Stimulating Serum 30ml
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Share Satisfaction Water Based Lubricant
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ROOMFUN Lube Launcher
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System Jo Agape Original Lubricant 60ml
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pjur Aqua Panthenol Waterbased Lubricant 30ml
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A Complete Guide for Better Pleasure and Care

When it comes to sexual wellness, finding the right lubes and essentials is key to creating comfortable, safe, and satisfying experiences. Whether you're exploring solo pleasure, enhancing intimacy with a partner, or simply investing in better self-care, understanding your options makes a world of difference. Here's your complete guide to navigating the world of lubes and essentials. 

Products at Lovestash in this category covers everything from personal lubricants to toy cleaners, massage oils, intimate hygiene products, and more. They are the building blocks of a smoother, safer, and more enjoyable sexual wellness journey.

Different Types of Lubes

Water-Based Lubes
The most versatile and popular choice. Water-based lubricants are safe for all types of sex toys and condoms. They're easy to clean up, lightweight, and available in a wide range of formulas, from basic to flavored to pH-balanced.

Silicone-Based Lubes
Known for their long-lasting glide and waterproof properties, silicone lubes are ideal for shower play and extended sessions. They're body-safe and perfect for anal sex, but not recommended for use with silicone toys unless specified as compatible.

Hybrid Lubes
A blend of water-based and silicone ingredients, hybrid lubes offer the best of both worlds, longer-lasting than water-based, yet easier to clean than pure silicone. They are often toy-safe and perfect for versatile play.

Flavored & Warming/Cooling Lubes
Add extra fun and sensation to your intimate moments. Flavored lubes make oral play delicious, while warming and cooling lubricants create tingling, temperature-based sensations that heighten pleasure.

Anal Lubricants
Thicker, cushioning formulas specifically designed for comfortable anal play. Available in both water-based and silicone options, anal lubes help reduce friction and ease insertion for a smoother experience.

Natural Lubricants
Made from organic, plant-based ingredients without parabens, glycerin, or synthetic additives. Natural lubricants are pH-balanced and ideal for those with sensitive skin or a preference for eco-friendly choices.

Condom-Compatible Lubes
All water-based and many silicone-based lubes are condom-safe, but always check labels. Using the right lubricant reduces condom breakage and enhances comfort.

Essentials Beyond Lubes

Toy Cleaners
Keep your toys fresh and safe with specially formulated antibacterial cleaners. Never substitute household soap for a quality toy cleaner, as it may damage delicate materials.

Condoms & Barriers
Essential for safer sex, offering protection against STIs and unplanned pregnancies. Stock up on latex and non-latex options, flavored varieties, and dental dams.

Massage Oils & Sensory Essentials
From nourishing massage oils to arousal balms and feather ticklers, essentials help set the mood and heighten sensation.

Intimate Hygiene Products
Maintain your sexual wellness with pH-balanced washes, intimate wipes, probiotic supplements, and period sex essentials.

Relaxing Gels
Designed to calm and soothe sensitive areas, relaxing gels can help reduce tension and promote comfort during intimacy, especially helpful for easing into new experiences.

Delay Sprays & Prolongers
Delay sprays and prolonging gels are formulated to help extend pleasure by reducing sensitivity without numbing enjoyment. Perfect for those looking to enhance stamina and create longer-lasting intimate experiences.

Stimulating Gels & Arousal Gels
Stimulating and arousal gels are crafted to heighten sensation by increasing blood flow and sensitivity in intimate areas. Perfect for adding an extra spark to solo sessions or partnered play, these gels come in warming, tingling, and intensifying formulas for enhanced pleasure.

Why Quality Matters

Choosing the right lubes and essentials isn't just about better sex, it's about respecting your body. Opting for body-safe, dermatologist-tested, and condom-compatible products ensures a healthy, worry-free experience every time.

Shop Lubes & Essentials with Confidence

At Lovestash, we make it easy to find everything you need for pleasure, care, and connection. Browse our curated selection of premium lubricants, toy cleaners, condoms, and more, all available with fast, discreet nation-wide delivery. Whether you're a beginner or a seasoned explorer, we've got your essentials covered. 

Start your journey to better pleasure today with the latest and best-selling lubes and essentials!

FAQ - Lubes & Essentials

What type of lube is safest to use with condoms and sex toys?

The safest lubricant to use with condoms and sex toys is a water-based lube. Water-based lubricants are body-safe, non-damaging to latex and silicone materials, easy to clean, and ideal for everyday intimate play.

What is the difference between water-based, silicone-based, and hybrid lubricants?

Water-based lubricants are versatile, toy-friendly, and compatible with condoms but may require reapplication. Silicone-based lubes offer long-lasting, waterproof slickness ideal for anal sex and shower play but may not be safe for all silicone toys. Hybrid lubes combine both for durability and easier cleanup, making them a popular choice for couples and solo play.

Can I use silicone lube with my silicone sex toys?

Using silicone lubricant with silicone sex toys is generally not recommended, as it can degrade the material over time. However, some premium silicone toys are tested and safe for use with specific silicone-based lubricants. Always check the toy manufacturer's guidelines before use.

What are stimulating and arousal gels, and how do they work?

Stimulating gels and arousal gels are specialty products designed to heighten sexual pleasure by increasing blood flow and sensitivity in intimate areas. These gels often create warming, cooling, or tingling sensations to enhance orgasms and intensify foreplay or solo play sessions.

Are natural and organic lubricants better for sensitive skin?

Yes, natural and organic lubricants are often better for sensitive skin. They are typically free from glycerin, parabens, synthetic fragrances, and harsh chemicals. Look for pH-balanced organic lubes made from plant-based ingredients to support vaginal health and prevent irritation.

What products help improve comfort during anal play?

To improve comfort during anal play, use thick anal lubricants designed for longer-lasting glide, such as silicone-based lubes or water-based anal lubes. Relaxing gels, anal desensitizers, and specially formulated anal comfort products can also help ease tension and enhance pleasure safely.

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