DILDOS
Find New Zealand’s most diverse collection of dildos at Lovestash, from ultra-realistic designs to bold, artistic toys that deliver unmatched penetration pleasure. Whether you're after classic silicone dildos, dual-ended options for shared fun, or strap-on compatible dildos for partner play, our range has something for every gender, body, and experience level.
Choose from lifelike textures, hollow styles, suction cup bases, and even vibrating or glass dildos that bring something extra to your sessions. Perfect for solo exploration or partnered adventure, dildos offer a natural, intimate experience with total control over pace and depth. With body-safe materials, inclusive sizing, and a wide selection of styles, finding your perfect fit is easy here with Lovestash, just add heaps of lubes with it. Discreet shipping is complimentary NZ-wide.
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Shop the Best Dildos in New Zealand for Every Body
Dildos are a timeless, body-inclusive, and incredibly versatile pleasure product that continues to be one of the best-selling sex toys for good reason. Whether you're discovering your body for the first time or expanding your toy collection, our wide range of dildos at Lovestash is designed to cater to all preferences, genders, and experience levels. From lifelike shapes to fantasy designs, vibrating features to hands-free suction cup dildos, we’re here to help you find your perfect match for solo or partnered play.
Explore Dildos by Style, Sensation, and Function
Looking for a realistic feel? Our realistic dildos are designed with ultra-detailed heads, veins, and textures to mimic the look and feel of the real thing. They come in a range of sizes, skin tones, and materials, and are perfect for those seeking lifelike stimulation. Many of our realistic options double as suction cup dildos, giving you the freedom to enjoy hands-free pleasure in the shower, against smooth surfaces, or wherever the moment strikes. These suction cup dildos are great for solo riders and perfect for those who want more control over their position and movement.
If you're shopping with a partner or exploring pegging and role reversal, our strap-on dildos and harness-compatible toys are ideal for hands-free penetration and power exchange. Compatible with most universal harnesses, these dildos come in various shapes and sizes, including slim options for beginners and textured or curved designs for more advanced play. For couples who want to experience shared penetration or dual pleasure, our double-ended dildos offer the connection and flexibility to enjoy mutual stimulation in sync.
Craving vibration? Our vibrating dildos combine the satisfying shape of a dildo with powerful buzz. These toys are ideal for solo users who want deep G-spot or prostate stimulation, or couples looking to amplify their sessions. Many models are USB-rechargeable and waterproof, with remote-controlled features for hands-free, multi-speed fun. For users who enjoy fuller sensations or are looking to level up, we also offer large and XXL dildos designed for intense stretch, deeper penetration, and satisfying pressure. With flared bases for anal safety and smooth or textured finishes, these dildos cater to size lovers and anal play enthusiasts alike.
Specialty Dildos for Creative & Customised Play
When you're ready to play outside the box, our collection of fantasy dildos and uniquely shaped toys offers a bold escape from the ordinary. With dragon dildos, tentacle shapes, and squirting dildos that simulate ejaculation, these designs are crafted for those with vivid imaginations and a love for roleplay. They're made with body-safe silicone in vibrant colours and textures, adding an extra visual and tactile thrill to your sessions.
If you prefer sleek, firm, and elegant stimulation, try our glass and metal dildos. These luxury toys are hygienic, non-porous, and great for temperature play. Warm them up or cool them down to awaken new sensations. The rigid construction makes them ideal for precision-based G-spot and P-spot stimulation, and their artistic designs make them as beautiful as they are functional.
Want something truly personal? Our Clone-A-Willy and DIY dildo kits let you make an exact replica of your or your partner’s anatomy at home. These fun and intimate kits are perfect as a gift, a keepsake, or a long-distance companion. Choose from standard, vibrating, or glow-in-the-dark kits, all complete with everything you need to create a custom toy in comfort and privacy.
Why Choose Lovestash for Dildos?
Lovestash is New Zealand’s most trusted destination for high-quality, body-safe dildos and inclusive pleasure products. Every toy we carry is chosen for its safety, design, and satisfaction. Whether you're after your first beginner-friendly dildo, a realistic suction cup model, or a high-end fantasy toy, you can shop with confidence knowing we offer discreet shipping, local support, and a curated range of the world’s best brands.
Ready to explore? Browse our full dildo collection, including best sellers and new arrivals, and filter by features like suction base, vibration, size, or material. Your ideal toy is waiting, and we’ll deliver it with the privacy and care you deserve.
FAQ - Dildos & Dongs
What is a dildo and how is it different from a vibrator?
A dildo is a non-vibrating sex toy designed for penetration. Unlike vibrators, which use motors to stimulate through vibration, dildos are typically solid or flexible and can be used for vaginal or anal play manually.
What type of dildo is best for beginners?
Beginners should start with slim, smooth dildos made from body-safe silicone. Shorter lengths, soft textures, and smaller girths are ideal for comfortable first-time use.
Are dildos safe to use?
Yes, dildos are safe when made from non-porous, body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel. Always clean before and after use, and use plenty of lube for comfort.
Can dildos be used for anal play?
Yes, but only use dildos designed for anal use. These should have a flared base or handle to prevent full insertion. Use a generous amount of water-based or anal-safe lube for safety and comfort.
What materials are best for dildos?
Silicone is the gold standard for safety, flexibility, and ease of cleaning. Glass and stainless steel offer firmness and temperature play, while TPE or rubber dildos are often cheaper but may be porous.
How do I clean a dildo?
Wash your dildo with warm water and mild, fragrance-free soap or a toy-safe cleaner. Boil silicone, glass, or stainless steel dildos (if non-vibrating) for deep sanitizing. Store in a clean, dry place.
Can I use lube with a dildo?
Absolutely. Use water-based lubricants with all dildos, especially if the toy is made from silicone. Silicone lubes can degrade silicone toys unless labeled as compatible.
Are there strap-on compatible dildos?
Yes! Many dildos are harness-compatible, often featuring a flared base or suction cup that can be inserted into a strap-on harness. These are perfect for couples exploring pegging or role reversal.
What’s the difference between realistic and fantasy dildos?
Realistic dildos are shaped like a penis and may feature veins, textures, or dual density. Fantasy dildos take on imaginative shapes — such as tentacles, creatures, or abstract forms — for creative stimulation.
Are suction cup dildos worth it?
Suction cup dildos are popular for hands-free play. They can stick to most smooth surfaces like tiles, showers, or furniture, offering more flexibility and variety in positions.
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