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PRODUCT TYPE: Penis Pump
Can't ask for more than this for a penis pump. Sophisticated high-tech pump with fully automatic pressure control with press of a button. Rechargeable, self-contained, wireless design Multiple levels of pressure Quick air release Measurements scale for result tracking Silicone sleeve
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For those measuring between 5 and 7 inches, the Hydromax7 delivers better, safer performance than traditional penis pump options, helping users improve their sexual power and stamina, while creating a real confidence boost. With a simple-to-use design (fill with warm...
PRODUCT TYPE: ANAL
Still using your outdated cleaning kit? Time for an upgrade! Experience the fully automatic Cleaning Kit from OMYSKY. 3 modes for different cleaning strengths. Silicon and ABS makes it extremely comfortable to use for either anal or virginal.
PRODUCT TYPE: BEN WA
Introducing perfectly weighted Pillow Talk's luxurious pleasure ball set ready to exercise your pelvic muscles to prepare you for tighter, more intense orgasms for you and your partner. Wear them over time and notice your building excitement. These exquisite silicone balls...
PRODUCT TYPE: BETTER SEX
Not your grandmother's flowery scent! BLOOM smells like freshly cut peonies - natural without a heavy perfumy smell. Use this amazing oil for a floral inspired massage or pour into your bath/use after shower for all day freshness. Non-greasy and...
PRODUCT TYPE: BETTER SEX
Includes 36 unique sexual experiences from cultures across the world and throughout history. Are you looking to spice up your sex life? Try an erotic Petrissage massage from France or worship an Inca phallus. Try early Polynesian sex bartering, shibari...
PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE
Share Satisfaction’s Water Based Lubricant is the perfect lube for any job! This lubricant is a water-based lube intended to lubricate, moisturise, and ease the comfort of intimate sexual activities. It can help you slide and glide with your partner,...
PRODUCT TYPE: BEN WA
Ever since her best friend had told her how incredible (and soooo much stronger) her orgasms were since she started doing kegel exercises, she knew that she needed to try them. Heightened sensations during sex play? Just by using a...
PRODUCT TYPE: BETTER SEX
Kiiroo VR Headset – Immersive 3D Experience for Your Smartphone Transform your smartphone into a full-featured virtual reality device with the Kiiroo VR Headset. Whether you're watching immersive 3D content, exploring virtual worlds, or playing interactive games, this headset delivers...
PRODUCT TYPE: ADULT GAMES
BACHELORETTE PARTY Pecker Shaped Popsicle Ice Tray. Get ready to cool down and spice up your bachelorette party with these hilarious Pecker Shaped Popsicle Ice Trays! Add some playfulness (and a little bit of naughty) to your drinks with these...
PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE
Try this effortless, mess free lube launcher from the ROOMFUN. Designed for smooth, easy insertion, this reusable tool ensures your playtime stays slick and exciting without any spills. Its clever design lets you control the perfect amount of lube every...
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JO® Misting Toy Cleaner is a gentle, fresh scented cleaner provides consumers with toy care option that is guaranteed to eliminate any trace of chemical aroma. Simply spray the cleaner on the toy, let sit 60 seconds, and rinse clean....
PRODUCT TYPE: SEX ENHANCER
Drywell 003 Ultra Thin Capsule Condoms - Ultimate Sensation, Pocket-Sized Protection Slip into next-level pleasure and peace of mind with Drywell 003 Ultra Thin Capsule Condoms. Designed for those who want to feel everything while staying safe, these ultra-thin condoms...
PRODUCT TYPE: SEX ENHANCER
Stay in Control with Drywell Men's Delay Wet Wipes - 8 Pack Travel Edition Enjoy longer-lasting confidence in the bedroom with Drywell Men's Delay Wet Wipes. These discreet, individually wrapped wipes are designed for men who want to extend their...
PRODUCT TYPE: ANAL
Automatic Enema Bulb Anal Cleaning Kit Take your hygiene routine to the next level with the Roselex Automatic Enema Bulb Anal Cleaning Kit. This advanced cleaning kit is designed for ultimate comfort, simplicity, and peace of mind. Whether you are...
PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE
Shockingly Good Fun – Explore Electric Edge Play Like Never Before Ready to take your BDSM play to a whole new voltage? The Roomfun Punishment Electric Buzzing Stimulation Whip combines the thrill of impact play with the tingling tease of...
PRODUCT TYPE: ANAL
Deep Clean, Simple Design – Your Essential Douche Bag for Every Routine Premium Douche Bag Kit with Hose & Hanging Hook Upgrade your cleansing ritual with this classic douche bag set – a timeless essential for anyone who values thorough,...
PRODUCT TYPE: BEN WA
Ever since her best friend had told her how incredible (and soooo much stronger) her orgasms were since she started doing kegel exercises, she knew that she needed to try them. Heightened sensations during sex play? Just by using a...
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PRODUCT TYPE: SEX FURNITURE
Become the master of all positions of ultimate pleasure with this sex position wedge. It elevates your favourite position for heightened pleasure. Providing the perfect incline for deeper penetration, suitable for all level of exploration. Free pump is include Size: 36 x 61...
PRODUCT TYPE: PENIS SLEEVE
Enhancing your erection with the this perfect size penis sleeve from Pretty Love. You will be able to maintain that erection for a much longer time. Just put your shaft inside the super-stretchy penis sleeve and it should be snug enough to...
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Looking for a hassle-free and super convenient gift? Our e-gift cards are like sending a pocket-sized party to someone’s inbox! It zips through cyberspace to deliver instant joy, perfect for those 'oops-almost-forgot' moments. With Lovestash's e-gift card, the lucky one gets to tap...
PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE
pjur analyse me! Moisturizing with hyaluron A water-based lubricant that feels almost like silicone. pjur Analyse Me! Comfort Water Anal Glide has a long lubricating effect, and boasts all the advantages of water. pjur Analyse Me! Comfort Water Anal Glide is an exceptional...
PRODUCT TYPE: ADULT GAMES
BACHELORETTE PARTY Pecker Shaped Popsicle Ice Tray. Get ready to cool down and spice up your bachelorette party with these hilarious Pecker Shaped Popsicle Ice Trays! Add some playfulness (and a little bit of naughty) to your drinks with these...
PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE
Fleshwash Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleaner is a must for any Fleshlight owner. This 4oz/118ml spray-on cleaner uses the powerful anti-bacterial ingredient, Triclosan to fight bacteria and keep your Fleshlight clean and sanitary. Fleshwash is recommended to clean Fleshlights and other sex...
PRODUCT TYPE: BONDAGE
Explore the world of bondage with this bondage restraint kit. A free blindfold is included for sensory deprivation play. If you love to be dominated, this easy restraint is the best way to get into bondage!
PRODUCT TYPE: BETTER SEX
Kama Sutra work to ensure delivery of quality pleasure products to enhance intimacy. Touch is one of the most important senses and the Aromatic Sensual Massage oils and Massage collection encourage sensory exploration. Kama Sutra's massage collection will help to...
PRODUCT TYPE: BETTER SEX
Cocoa Bean and Goji-Berry. Our massage oil blend contains natural oils and certified organic extracts to soothe aching muscles and create a sensual setting. Use on the body everyday after bath or shower for silky soft skin. Will not stain...
PRODUCT TYPE: PENIS SLEEVE
Increased penis size, constant erection, prevention of premature ejaculation, the most of all it gives the partner enhanced experience that worth keep coming back for. Its carefully crafted ridges add texture and sensation, providing a completely unique experience and delivering...
PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE
Are you looking for a premium, water-based personal lubricant with something extra special? Then look no further than pjur AQUA Panthenol! It has a long-lasting lubricating effect and leaves the skin feeling great. Panthenol nurtures and regenerates the skin. It...
PRODUCT TYPE: BETTER SEX
This product is a pleasure-boosting stimulating gel for the external vaginal area only, helping you achieve more powerful and longer-lasting orgasms. Its wash-free formula enhances the body's sensitivity by providing a gentle tingling and warming effect, allowing for prolonged enjoyment...
PRODUCT TYPE: MASTURBATOR
Stronger Suction with Real Heat This upgraded version of the original Sam Neo delivers body temperature heat alongside powerful sucking and vibrating action, while the thick textured sleeve massages your penis. With SVAKOM’s Extended O function, a single button press...
PRODUCT TYPE: MASTURBATOR
Feel by KIIROO Pocket Stroker Crystal and PowerBlow Combo Experience BJs on the go with the Feel Pocket Stroker Crystal and PowerBlow blowjob machine combo. This dynamic duo is built to satisfy, combining intense suction with a crystal clear pocket...
PRODUCT TYPE: MASTURBATOR
The Fleshlight Pink Lady Super Tight features a smooth 13mm canal for men who prefer a snug fit and still want the intensity of the original Fleshlight. The original Fleshlight collection features three unique toys for you to enjoy. Each...
PRODUCT TYPE: VIBRATOR
Switch it up.LELO Switch™ is a double-ended wand vibrator that lets you effortlessly switch between external and internal pleasure for a personalized experience. Engineered with ultra-soft sensorial ribs, this wand delivers an intensified dynamic sensation through textured ribs that stimulate more...
PRODUCT TYPE: VIBRATOR
The Lush Mini by Lovense is the newest release in the world-famous Lush series - a premium, fully app-controlled vibrator that delivers powerful G-spot pleasure in a smaller, more discreet form. Don’t be fooled by the name “Mini” - this...
PRODUCT TYPE: MASTURBATOR
Introducing TENGA ARTE WEAVE & TENGA ARTE DRAPE! The luxurious tapestry of WEAVE, and the flowing ribbons of DRAPE. Each ARTE has different internal details to create distinct sensations. Unveiling the Subtly Layered Artistry of the TENGA ARTE. Supple yet...
Better Sex Starts Here: Explore Lovestash NZ's Complete Collection of Pleasure-Enhancing Essentials
At Lovestash, we believe better sex should be accessible, exciting, and empowering for every body. Whether you're exploring something new, deepening your connection, or simply seeking to enhance your own pleasure, our Better Sex collection brings together everything you need for a more satisfying, comfortable, and confident experience.
From condoms for safe and satisfying sex to intimate care products that keep things fresh before, during, and after play, this is your go-to destination for sexual wellness essentials that go beyond just toys.
Condoms for Comfort and Confidence
Our range of premium condoms includes ultra-thin, ribbed, extra-large, and latex-free condoms to suit every body and preference. Whether you’re looking for added stimulation, a natural feel, or vegan-friendly options, you’ll find trusted brands designed to protect pleasure without compromise.
Sex Furniture for Deeper Pleasure
Explore sex furniture and positioning pillows that support deeper penetration, new angles, and ergonomic comfort. From discreet wedges to full-size loungers and under-bed restraint systems, our range of sex furniture is designed to unlock new dimensions of intimacy.
Sexy Gifts, Couples Games & Massage
Turn up the fun with sexy gifts and couples’ games that spark connection and curiosity. Whether it’s a romantic massage, a cheeky date-night game, or a playful gift kit, these products make it easy to explore intimacy with your partner. Add a bottle of aphrodisiac massage oil or a massage candle for the ultimate sensual experience.
Stimulating Gels for Better Vulva/Female Orgasms
Enhance every sensation with arousal gels and stimulating creams designed for vulvas. These body-safe products increase blood flow, sensitivity, and pleasure — helping many experience more intense or easier-to-reach orgasms. Perfect for solo or partnered play.
Delay Sprays for Better Penis/Male Orgasms
Take control of your climax with delay sprays, prolongers, and other performance-enhancing products for penis owners. Whether you're looking to last longer, boost confidence, or intensify sensation, our curated range includes gentle desensitizing sprays and effective topical gels.
Better Anal Sex with Relaxing Gels & Lubes
Comfort is key to pleasurable anal play. Our collection includes anal relaxing gels, thicker anal lubes, and beginner-friendly training kits designed to ease tension and increase comfort. Safe, body-positive, and perfect for all experience levels.
Sex Toy Cleaners & Intimate Care
Better sex includes better hygiene. Shop antibacterial toy cleaners, intimate wipes, vulva moisturizers, and aftercare essentials that keep things clean, fresh, and worry-free. These products support your long-term sexual wellness and are ideal for post-play comfort.
Foreplay Enhancers for Full-Body Pleasure
Pleasure starts before penetration. Discover foreplay tools like feather ticklers, blindfolds, warming gels, and kissable lubes to ignite desire and build anticipation. Ideal for couples looking to explore deeper connection and turn up the heat together.
Why Our Better Sex Collection Is Different
At Lovestash, we go beyond the basics. We’ve curated a collection that blends trusted performance with inclusive pleasure — ensuring that people of all genders, orientations, and experience levels feel seen, supported, and satisfied.
You’ll find:
- Body-safe, high-quality products
- Discreet shipping throughout New Zealand
- Expert curation with real pleasure in mind
- A wide range of tools for solo, couples, and curious explorers
✨ Ready to Level Up Your Intimacy?
Whether you're searching for the best delay spray in NZ, a vegan condom, or a luxurious arousal gel for vulva pleasure, our Better Sex category has it all.
Explore the full collection now and enjoy better confidence, comfort, and connection — with the support of Lovestash.
FAQ - Better Sex
What products enhance vulva or clitoral sensitivity for better orgasms?
Stimulating gels and arousal gels are specially formulated to enhance clitoral and vulva sensitivity by increasing blood flow and nerve response. These products create tingling, warming, or cooling effects and can be used during foreplay or solo play to intensify sensation and improve orgasm quality.
How do delay sprays and prolongers work for male stamina?
Delay sprays and prolongers are designed to reduce penile sensitivity without numbing pleasure entirely. They help men last longer during intercourse by using mild desensitizing agents that allow better control over climax and can improve confidence and satisfaction.
What is sex furniture and how does it improve intimacy?
Sex furniture includes items like wedges, cushions, and positioners that support the body and allow for deeper angles, better comfort, and more creative positions. It enhances intimacy by reducing strain and adding variety to sexual exploration.
What are the best foreplay enhancers for couples?
Foreplay enhancers include items like massage oils, scented candles, feather ticklers, vibrating toys, and arousal balms. These tools help increase connection, build anticipation, and enhance physical and emotional intimacy during partnered play.
Why is it important to use sex toy cleaners and intimate hygiene products?
Sex toy cleaners are specifically formulated to remove bacteria and maintain the integrity of delicate toy materials, unlike regular soap. Intimate hygiene products such as pH-balanced washes and wipes help maintain vulva and anal health, reduce irritation, and keep you feeling fresh and confident.
What types of sexy games and gifts are great for spicing up a relationship?
Sexy gifts and adult games can include romantic card games, dice, couple’s challenges, massage kits, and playful accessories. They’re designed to break routine, spark laughter, and explore new forms of pleasure together.
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