The Ultimate Guide to Sex Toys for Couples

Exploring sex toys as a couple is one of the most exciting ways to deepen intimacy, enhance communication, and unlock new dimensions of pleasure. Whether you're brand new to the world of adult toys or looking to level up your shared experiences, this guide will help you get to know the most popular types of sex toys for couples, from app-controlled vibrators and strap-ons to sex swings and furniture. At Lovestash, we’ve curated the best couples toys in New Zealand to make sure your connection, satisfaction, and fun are always front and centre.

Vibrators, Rings & Toys That Keep You Connected

If you're looking for more connection, stimulation, or spontaneity in your relationship, couples’ vibrators and remote-controlled toys are a great place to start. App-controlled vibrators and remote-controlled sex toys are designed to let one partner control the other's pleasure with the touch of a button, whether you're across the room or across the world. These toys are perfect for long-distance couples, discreet public play, or building anticipation at home.

Meanwhile, wearable couples vibrators (like the popular C-shaped designs from We-Vibe and Lovense) are made to be worn during sex, providing shared clitoral and internal stimulation for both partners. These hands-free toys move with your bodies and can often be controlled via app, making them perfect for tech-savvy couples or those who love interactive foreplay.

Another must-have? Vibrating cock rings. These toys wrap around the base of the penis to enhance erection strength and stamina, while the added vibrations offer external stimulation for a partner. They're simple to use, great for beginners, and a go-to for couples looking to add more mutual pleasure with minimal effort.

Deeper Desires with Strap-Ons, Anal Toys & Bondage

Ready to try something bolder? Strap-on dildos and harness sets give couples the opportunity to explore role reversal, pegging, or partner penetration with full control. With adjustable harnesses and interchangeable dildos, strap-ons are incredibly versatile and inclusive, making them popular with LGBTQ+ couples and curious beginners alike.

Adding anal toys for couples can bring a whole new dimension to your bedroom routine. From beginner-friendly butt plugs to prostate massagers designed for P-spot stimulation, anal play toys offer targeted pleasure for all genders. Many couples find that exploring this area together boosts trust, intimacy, and satisfaction.

If you're craving even more excitement, bondage and restraint kits allow you to explore dominance, submission, and sensory play in a safe, consensual way. A simple set might include soft cuffs, blindfolds, and ticklers, while advanced kits can offer ropes, gags, floggers, and more. Whether you’re new to kink or well-experienced, bondage toys help create anticipation, vulnerability, and deeper erotic connection.

Elevate Your Play with Sex Furniture, Swings & Iconic Brands

For couples who want to get really adventurous, sex swings, position enhancers, and sex furniture can open up positions and sensations you simply can’t achieve otherwise. A well-placed positioning wedge or a hanging swing adds support, comfort, and creativity to your intimate moments. These tools are especially helpful for couples looking to relieve pressure on joints, try new angles, or explore BDSM setups at home.

And of course, no guide to couples’ toys would be complete without a mention of We-Vibe, a leading brand in high-end couples vibrators. We-Vibe products are sleek, body-safe, and designed to enhance intimacy through powerful yet quiet vibrations. Many of their toys are app connected, waterproof, and come with remote controls, making them a favourite among couples around the world.

Whether you're exploring a first toy together or building an entire shared collection, couples’ sex toys offer more than just pleasure. They spark communication, deepen trust, and make every moment more playful. At Lovestash, we stock the best couples’ sex toys in New Zealand, carefully selected to suit every comfort level, curiosity, and connection.

Shop Couples’ Sex Toys in NZ with Confidence

Ready to explore together? Browse our full couples sex toy collection here, get wearable vibes, strap-ons, bondage kits, vibrating rings, anal toys, and more. All items are body-safe, discreetly shipped, and designed to bring you and your partner closer through pleasure, exploration, and connection. Play your way - with Lovestash.