LUBES

Lubricants are great treat for all type of intimate play. Try our selection of lubes, lotions and essentials with flavours, aromas and different sensation stimulations for enhanced foreplay, smooth penetration and added glide to touches. We stock Organic lubes, silicone based, water based, oil based lubricant from the most popular brands like Uberlube, Eros, High On Love, Intimate Earth, Doc Johnson, Pjur, System Jo, Tenga, Trojan, Wet Stuff, Swiss Navy and Share Satisfaction.

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Share Satisfaction Water Based Lubricant
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

Share Satisfaction’s Water Based Lubricant is the perfect lube for any job! This lubricant is a water-based lube intended to lubricate, moisturise, and ease the comfort of intimate sexual activities. It can help you slide and glide with your partner,...

$18.95$14.95
30ml
120ml
Intimate Earth Discover G-Spot Stimulating Serum 30ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: SEX ENHANCER

Intimate Earth™ wants women and men to take intimacy to the highest level. What better way to accomplish this than to experience a G-Spot Orgasm together? DISCOVER™ G-Spot Stimulating Serum contains a blend of organic extracts and organic Japanese peppermint oil blended with...

$53.95$39.95
Uberlube Luxury Lubricant
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

Excitement. Intimacy. Anticipation. Contentment. Uberlube lets you feel all the things you want to feel and also adds a sense of luxury.  High-end luxury lubricant. Instead of just being slippery, Überlube is designed to transfer sensation while reducing friction. Überlube...

$39.95$29.95
55ml
112ml
pjur Med Vegan Glide - 100ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

pjurmed VEGAN glide is a highly efficient, preservative free water-based intimate personal lubricant with solely vegan ingredients and without any animal testing. It provides gentle additional moisture for a long-lasting lubrication and is pH-balanced. The formula is especially suitable for...

$39.95$32.95
Intimate Earth Hydra Natural Glide 120ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

HYDRA  is a premium, paraben-free, glycerin-free, water-based formula blended with natural plant cellulose. Enhances the sense of pleasure, giving silky smoothness to all intimate experiences.  No smell or taste.  Safe to ingest. Ingredients Purified Water (Aqua), Propanediol,  Hydroxyethylcellulose, Sodium Benzoate,...

$39.95$29.95
Lelo Pleasure Enhancing Serum - Clitoral Stimulating Gel
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PRODUCT TYPE: BETTER SEX

This product is a pleasure-boosting stimulating gel for the external vaginal area only, helping you achieve more powerful and longer-lasting orgasms. Its wash-free formula enhances the body's sensitivity by providing a gentle tingling and warming effect, allowing for prolonged enjoyment...

$59.95$49.95
EROS BIO and VEGAN AQUA 100ml Water Based Lubricant
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

EROS Bio & Vegan Aqua is a water-based lubricant. Registered by the Vegan Society. A Premium EROS quality lubricant and it is specially developed for the requirements of vegans. It is also water-soluble, greaseless, neutral in flavour, colourless and odourless. Made...

$31.95$23.95
pjur WOMAN Lust Intense 15ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

Intense clitoral stimulation in a bottle pjur WOMAN Lust Intense gives women the ability to control their orgasm and add a buzz to their sex life. Water-based formula also suitable for use with erotic toys Up to 15 minutes of...

$99.95$55.95
Sensuva On xXxTREME Natural Arousal Oil with Antidote 5ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

ON xXxTREME, Sensuva’s newest addition is exactly what it sounds...EXTREME! Our most powerful formula yet. This isn’t your mamma’s formula. Not recommended for beginners. One drop and you’ll be off. In fact this is so powerful we included an antidote...

$55.95$45.95
Fleshlight Fleshlube Water 118ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

Fleshlight Fleshlube Water Designed to provide the optimal silky smooth feel for use with both Fleshlight products and with a partner, this premium water-based lubricant is manufactured from the highest quality grade ingredients. Easy to clean, and incredibly natural and...

$24.95$22.95
Girls Get Off After Banger Sex Toy Cleaner - 100ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: ESSENTIALS

We have a big bang theory. It starts with a vibe and ends with After Banger.  Hypoallergenic, fragrance free and vegan (because why tick 1 box when you can tick 3?), our easy to use toy cleaner is about to...

$19.95$14.95
Wet Stuff LITE 90g
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

Wet Stuff Lite - Water Based Personal Lubricant Gentle and cooling, Lite is a favourite for those people who just want a little extra lubrication. Great for sensitive skin. Natural-feeling, clear and silky in texture. ✓ compatible with condoms ✓ hypoallergenic ✓...

$18.95$12.95
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System Jo Cocktails Water-Based Flavored Lubricant - Sex on the Beach 60mL
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

Part of our popular water-based Cocktail inspired flavored lubricants, Sex On the Beach features a blend of delicate peach and citrusy orange.Its sensual, comforting glide and silky-smooth feel are perfect for any intimate moment, particularly when transitioning from oral to...

$29.95$21.95
Peaches and Cream - System Jo H2O Lubricant
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

Peaches and Cream - FREE JO H2O Vanilla 30ml, with purchase of JO Peachy Lips 120ml.The JO® H2O FLAVORED COLLECTION offers a flavorful array of personal lubricants designed to enhance foreplay and intimacy. Formulated with a pure plant-based glycerin and infused...

$59.95$39.95
System Jo Aloe Original Lubricant 60ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

JO Aloe combines their best-selling pH balanced, water-based formula with an infusion of organic aloe and hyaluronic acid. This carefully crafted blend results in a boost of moisture and a soothing glide ideal for those with sensitive skin.  Made without...

$39.95$26.95
Lifestyles SKYN Excite Climax Gel 15 ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: SEX ENHANCER

Lifestyles SKYN Excite Gel 15 mlDesigned and tested by women to maximize the female sexual experience. Blended with high quality ingredients which provide a pleasurable tingling and warming sensation.

$29.95$21.95
EROS Aqua Sensitive Glycerin Free 100 ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

Aqua Sensitive is a odourless water-based medical lubricant with aloe vera and panthenol, glycerine-free and ph-optimised. Provides additional lubrication during sexual intercourse. Economical, colourless and flavourless. Contains no essential oils. Moisturising and kind to the skin. NOTE: Keep product out...

$25.95$20.95
EROS BIO and VEGAN AQUA 100ml Water Based Lubricant
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

EROS Bio & Vegan Aqua is a water-based lubricant. Registered by the Vegan Society. A Premium EROS quality lubricant and it is specially developed for the requirements of vegans. It is also water-soluble, greaseless, neutral in flavour, colourless and odourless. Made...

$31.95$23.95
pjur Med Sensitive Glide - 100ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

pjur MED: Sensitive Glide is specifically developed for very sensitive mucous membranes in the genital area. Glycerin, parabens, and preservative agents were therefore deliberately left out to make the water-based formula as neutral as possible to ensure maximum compatibility with mucous membranes....

$39.95$32.95
pjur Med Repair Glide - 100ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

pjur MED: Repair Glide is a water-based intimate personal lubricant with regenerative hyaluron for dry and stressed vaginal mucosa. Hyaluron is able to bind large amounts of water, creating small aqua cushions that significantly boost the product's lubricating effect, and helps...

$39.95$32.95
pjur Med Vegan Glide - 100ml
Out of stock

PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

pjurmed VEGAN glide is a highly efficient, preservative free water-based intimate personal lubricant with solely vegan ingredients and without any animal testing. It provides gentle additional moisture for a long-lasting lubrication and is pH-balanced. The formula is especially suitable for...

$39.95$32.95
System JO Vaginal Tightening Serum - Vaginal Toning & Tightening Cream
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

JO Vaginal Tightening Serum is perfect for exploring new sensations together. It uses a unique blend of botanical ingredients to both moisturize and tighten vaginal tissue within minutes. Formulated using a combination of nourishing extracts that create a creamy, soft...

$49.95$35.95
50ml
System JO Prolonger Desensitising Gel - 60ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

JO Prolonger Gel helps you maximize stamina for extended pleasure and playful intimacy. Specially formulated with natural desensitizers like allspice, patchouli oil, and peppermint, it's the perfect way to last longer and climax together. The thick, creamy gel is perfect...

$59.95$39.95
Intimate Earth MOJO Niacin and Ginseng Penis Stimulating Gel 30ml
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PRODUCT TYPE: LUBE

MOJO Penis Stimulating Gel is blended with Niacin and Ginseng for harder and longer erections. Increases sensitivity for stronger and longer orgasms. Paraben free, pure vegan and Condom Safe. Use regularly to achieve desired results. Massage 1 pump of gel on...

$59.95$45.95

A Complete Guide for Better Pleasure and Care

When it comes to sexual wellness, finding the right lubes and essentials is key to creating comfortable, safe, and satisfying experiences. Whether you're exploring solo pleasure, enhancing intimacy with a partner, or simply investing in better self-care, understanding your options makes a world of difference. Here's your complete guide to navigating the world of lubes and essentials. 

Products at Lovestash in this category covers everything from personal lubricants to toy cleaners, massage oils, intimate hygiene products, and more. They are the building blocks of a smoother, safer, and more enjoyable sexual wellness journey.

Different Types of Lubes

Water-Based Lubes
The most versatile and popular choice. Water-based lubricants are safe for all types of sex toys and condoms. They're easy to clean up, lightweight, and available in a wide range of formulas, from basic to flavored to pH-balanced.

Silicone-Based Lubes
Known for their long-lasting glide and waterproof properties, silicone lubes are ideal for shower play and extended sessions. They're body-safe and perfect for anal sex, but not recommended for use with silicone toys unless specified as compatible.

Hybrid Lubes
A blend of water-based and silicone ingredients, hybrid lubes offer the best of both worlds, longer-lasting than water-based, yet easier to clean than pure silicone. They are often toy-safe and perfect for versatile play.

Flavored & Warming/Cooling Lubes
Add extra fun and sensation to your intimate moments. Flavored lubes make oral play delicious, while warming and cooling lubricants create tingling, temperature-based sensations that heighten pleasure.

Anal Lubricants
Thicker, cushioning formulas specifically designed for comfortable anal play. Available in both water-based and silicone options, anal lubes help reduce friction and ease insertion for a smoother experience.

Natural Lubricants
Made from organic, plant-based ingredients without parabens, glycerin, or synthetic additives. Natural lubricants are pH-balanced and ideal for those with sensitive skin or a preference for eco-friendly choices.

Condom-Compatible Lubes
All water-based and many silicone-based lubes are condom-safe, but always check labels. Using the right lubricant reduces condom breakage and enhances comfort.

Essentials Beyond Lubes

Toy Cleaners
Keep your toys fresh and safe with specially formulated antibacterial cleaners. Never substitute household soap for a quality toy cleaner, as it may damage delicate materials.

Condoms & Barriers
Essential for safer sex, offering protection against STIs and unplanned pregnancies. Stock up on latex and non-latex options, flavored varieties, and dental dams.

Massage Oils & Sensory Essentials
From nourishing massage oils to arousal balms and feather ticklers, essentials help set the mood and heighten sensation.

Intimate Hygiene Products
Maintain your sexual wellness with pH-balanced washes, intimate wipes, probiotic supplements, and period sex essentials.

Relaxing Gels
Designed to calm and soothe sensitive areas, relaxing gels can help reduce tension and promote comfort during intimacy, especially helpful for easing into new experiences.

Delay Sprays & Prolongers
Delay sprays and prolonging gels are formulated to help extend pleasure by reducing sensitivity without numbing enjoyment. Perfect for those looking to enhance stamina and create longer-lasting intimate experiences.

Stimulating Gels & Arousal Gels
Stimulating and arousal gels are crafted to heighten sensation by increasing blood flow and sensitivity in intimate areas. Perfect for adding an extra spark to solo sessions or partnered play, these gels come in warming, tingling, and intensifying formulas for enhanced pleasure.

Why Quality Matters

Choosing the right lubes and essentials isn't just about better sex, it's about respecting your body. Opting for body-safe, dermatologist-tested, and condom-compatible products ensures a healthy, worry-free experience every time.

Shop Lubes & Essentials with Confidence

At Lovestash, we make it easy to find everything you need for pleasure, care, and connection. Browse our curated selection of premium lubricants, toy cleaners, condoms, and more, all available with fast, discreet nation-wide delivery. Whether you're a beginner or a seasoned explorer, we've got your essentials covered. 

Start your journey to better pleasure today with the latest and best-selling lubes and essentials!

FAQ - Lubes & Essentials

What type of lube is safest to use with condoms and sex toys?

The safest lubricant to use with condoms and sex toys is a water-based lube. Water-based lubricants are body-safe, non-damaging to latex and silicone materials, easy to clean, and ideal for everyday intimate play.

What is the difference between water-based, silicone-based, and hybrid lubricants?

Water-based lubricants are versatile, toy-friendly, and compatible with condoms but may require reapplication. Silicone-based lubes offer long-lasting, waterproof slickness ideal for anal sex and shower play but may not be safe for all silicone toys. Hybrid lubes combine both for durability and easier cleanup, making them a popular choice for couples and solo play.

Can I use silicone lube with my silicone sex toys?

Using silicone lubricant with silicone sex toys is generally not recommended, as it can degrade the material over time. However, some premium silicone toys are tested and safe for use with specific silicone-based lubricants. Always check the toy manufacturer's guidelines before use.

What are stimulating and arousal gels, and how do they work?

Stimulating gels and arousal gels are specialty products designed to heighten sexual pleasure by increasing blood flow and sensitivity in intimate areas. These gels often create warming, cooling, or tingling sensations to enhance orgasms and intensify foreplay or solo play sessions.

Are natural and organic lubricants better for sensitive skin?

Yes, natural and organic lubricants are often better for sensitive skin. They are typically free from glycerin, parabens, synthetic fragrances, and harsh chemicals. Look for pH-balanced organic lubes made from plant-based ingredients to support vaginal health and prevent irritation.

What products help improve comfort during anal play?

To improve comfort during anal play, use thick anal lubricants designed for longer-lasting glide, such as silicone-based lubes or water-based anal lubes. Relaxing gels, anal desensitizers, and specially formulated anal comfort products can also help ease tension and enhance pleasure safely.

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