FAQ - Dildos
What is a dildo and how is it different from a vibrator?
A dildo is a non-vibrating sex toy designed for penetration. Unlike vibrators, which use motors to stimulate through vibration, dildos are typically solid or flexible and can be used for vaginal or anal play manually.
What type of dildo is best for beginners?
Beginners should start with slim, smooth dildos made from body-safe silicone. Shorter lengths, soft textures, and smaller girths are ideal for comfortable first-time use.
Are dildos safe to use?
Yes, dildos are safe when made from non-porous, body-safe materials like silicone, glass, or stainless steel. Always clean before and after use, and use plenty of lube for comfort.
Can dildos be used for anal play?
Yes, but only use dildos designed for anal use. These should have a flared base or handle to prevent full insertion. Use a generous amount of water-based or anal-safe lube for safety and comfort.
What materials are best for dildos?
Silicone is the gold standard for safety, flexibility, and ease of cleaning. Glass and stainless steel offer firmness and temperature play, while TPE or rubber dildos are often cheaper but may be porous.
How do I clean a dildo?
Wash your dildo with warm water and mild, fragrance-free soap or a toy-safe cleaner. Boil silicone, glass, or stainless steel dildos (if non-vibrating) for deep sanitizing. Store in a clean, dry place.
Can I use lube with a dildo?
Absolutely. Use water-based lubricants with all dildos, especially if the toy is made from silicone. Silicone lubes can degrade silicone toys unless labeled as compatible.
Are there strap-on compatible dildos?
Yes! Many dildos are harness-compatible, often featuring a flared base or suction cup that can be inserted into a strap-on harness. These are perfect for couples exploring pegging or role reversal.
What’s the difference between realistic and fantasy dildos?
Realistic dildos are shaped like a penis and may feature veins, textures, or dual density. Fantasy dildos take on imaginative shapes — such as tentacles, creatures, or abstract forms — for creative stimulation.
Are suction cup dildos worth it?
Suction cup dildos are popular for hands-free play. They can stick to most smooth surfaces like tiles, showers, or furniture, offering more flexibility and variety in positions.
