BDSM isn’t just for couples, it’s a deeply personal and rewarding journey you can explore on your own. Whether you're single, curious, or craving new experiences, there are many ways to discover kink, build confidence, and enjoy your desires without a partner. Start with Self-Discovery Understanding what turns you on is the first step. BDSM is a broad umbrella, covering everything from power dynamics and restraint to sensation and roleplay. Read blogs, watch educational content, or follow kink creators to see what resonates. Journaling can help you explore your reactions and clarify your interests. Ask yourself: Am I more drawn...

The Aesthetic Beauty of Shibari Shibari is often celebrated as a form of living body art. Rope patterns flow across the skin, accentuating natural curves and posture in a way that is both visual and intimate. Each tie becomes an expression of connection between the rigger and the person being tied. The beauty lies not only in the final form but also in the mindful, intentional process of tying. Wrapping, knotting, and adjusting each strand of rope creates a rhythm that deepens intimacy and builds trust through presence and shared awareness. The Erotic and Emotional Elements of Kinbaku Kinbaku explores...

Introduction Whether you are just starting your pleasure journey or you are already a seasoned toy lover, the world of dildos is endlessly exciting. From sleek silicone classics to tech-packed rotating wonders, there is a perfect match for every mood, body, and fantasy. In New Zealand, more people than ever are discovering how a well-chosen dildo can unlock deeper satisfaction and bring more variety into their solo or partnered play. This guide will help you understand what makes each type unique, how to choose one that suits your desires, and introduce you to some of our favourite picks from the...

Introduction to Anal Beads Anal beads are a type of sex toy designed specifically for anal stimulation. Typically composed of a series of connected balls or shapes, they are meant to be inserted into the anus and then removed for pleasure. These beads vary in size, material, and flexibility, catering to a wide range of preferences and experience levels. Historically, anal beads have evolved alongside the broader sex toy industry. Originally made from hard plastic or rubber, modern versions now prioritize safety, comfort, and aesthetics, utilizing body-safe materials like silicone and offering features like vibration or ergonomic designs. The Psychology...

Embracing Diversity in Identity and Expression In 2025, conversations about LGBTQ+ identities are not just relevant, they are essential. As societies grow more inclusive, understanding the experiences, challenges, and contributions of LGBTQ+ individuals strengthens our collective humanity. Whether through policy reform, visibility in media, or access to affirming products, progress is being made, but there’s still more to do. Retailers like LoveStash lead by example with curated collections that affirm sexual wellness for all identities, including non-binary, transgender, lesbian, gay, bisexual, and queer communities. By providing inclusive toys, like strap-ons, prostate massagers, and gender-affirming accessories, they foster self-love and pleasure...

Female Vibrators NZ | Explore Your Pleasure with LoveStash Pleasure is power. And when it comes to discovering what feels good, female vibrators are one of the most empowering tools out there. Whether you’re exploring your body for the first time or looking to level up your solo (or shared) experiences, vibrators offer more than just fun, they offer connection, confidence, and control. At LoveStash, we’ve helped thousands of Kiwi women discover the joy of exploring their pleasure. In this guide, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know about female vibrators: the different types, how to choose one...

Orgasms are one of life’s most delicious mysteries. They can be quick, lingering, soft, or explosive, but how long does an orgasm actually last? For many Kiwis, the answer depends on the body, the type of stimulation, and even the toy or technique involved. In this guide, we explore the science behind orgasm length, how to make them last longer, and the ways pleasure products can help you reach and extend your peak. The Science of Orgasm Scientifically speaking, an orgasm is a series of rhythmic muscle contractions, accompanied by a flood of feel-good hormones like oxytocin and dopamine. For...

Introduction: Reconnecting Through Intimacy In the hustle of daily life, emotional and physical intimacy in relationships can often take a back seat. But nurturing sexual connection isn't just about pleasure, it's about trust, vulnerability, and feeling seen. Reconnecting through intimacy can revitalize your bond and strengthen your partnership in unexpected ways. Whether you're newly in love or a decade into your commitment, tools and techniques that center mutual desire can reignite sparks. Thoughtfully designed sex toys from trusted retailers like LoveStash offer couples new ways to explore touch, sensation, and shared pleasure in a pressure-free environment. What Is Intimacy in...

Breaking the Distance Barrier Modern relationships often face the challenge of distance, whether temporary or long-term. But technology has transformed how we connect, and nowhere is this more exciting than in the world of intimacy. Remote-controlled sex toys give couples the power to share pleasure, build anticipation, and stay bonded, no matter how many miles separate them. These innovative devices are not just toys; they’re tools for enhancing connection, trust, and playful exploration. At LoveStash, we’ve seen how Kiwis are embracing these products to keep the spark alive, even when apart. What Are Remote-Controlled Sex Toys? Remote-controlled sex toys are...

Flavoured lubricants and toys offer an opportunity for you or couples to explore and enjoy new sensory experiences together. This shared exploration can lead to a deeper emotional connection and a more fulfilling intimate life. Let's bring this topic down to earth and talk about it like we're just a couple of friends having a candid chat.  So, flavoured lubricants – think of them like the cherry on top of your dessert. They're there to make something that's already good even better. Imagine this: You're getting cozy with your partner, things are heating up, and then there's this burst of...

Introduction to Foreplay Foreplay, often overshadowed by the act of intercourse, plays a pivotal role in intimate relationships. It's not just a precursor but an essential element that sets the stage for a deeper connection, both emotionally and physically. The Purpose of Foreplay Foreplay serves multiple purposes. Beyond the physical arousal, it acts as a bridge, connecting partners mentally and emotionally. It's a time of exploration, understanding, and mutual appreciation, setting the tone for the intimacy that follows. Benefits of Foreplay Engaging in foreplay offers numerous benefits: - Enhanced Arousal: Foreplay stimulates the body, preparing it for the main event....