The Couples’ Guide to Father’s Day Gifting
Posted by MARIA LOCKE

Let’s be honest, Father’s Day gifts can get a bit predictable. Socks, ties, or a new mug are nice, but do they really light a spark? This year, why not flip the script and surprise him with something that gives back to both of you. The best Father’s Day gifts are the ones that bring you closer, spark intimacy, and create memories you’ll both enjoy. That’s where intimate gifts come in, thoughtful, exciting, and oh-so rewarding. Why Couples’ Gifts Make Sense Gifting pleasure might not be the first thing that comes to mind for Father’s Day, but it should be....
First Time Anal? Here’s Your Go-To Beginner’s Guide
Posted by MARIA LOCKE

Let’s talk about the backdoor. For something that’s so full of nerve endings, pleasure potential, and curiosity, anal play still manages to be wrapped in mystery, myths, and a bit of hesitation. But it doesn’t have to be. Whether you’re completely new to it, mildly curious, or ready to take your play to the next level, anal exploration can be empowering, exciting, and yes, deeply pleasurable. This beginner’s guide is your gentle, cheeky introduction to anal play. We’ll walk you through the what, the why, and the how, with a strong dose of safety, self-trust, and good lube. It’s time...
Dildo vs Vibrator: What’s the Real Difference?
Posted by MARIA LOCKE

Let’s be honest, if you’ve ever browsed a sex toy shop or scrolled through LoveStash’s delightful collection, you’ve probably wondered: what’s the actual difference between a dildo and a vibrator? They might look similar, they might even feel similar, but they serve very different purposes in your pleasure toolkit. Whether you're brand new to sex toys or just want to brush up on the basics, knowing the difference between these two essentials can seriously level up your solo or partnered play. And yes, there are definitely toys that blur the lines! What Is a Dildo? A dildo is a non-vibrating...
Sex During Pregnancy: What’s Safe, What’s Not, and How to Keep Intimacy Thriving
Posted by MARIA LOCKE

Let's talk openly about something many Kiwi couples wonder: is sex safe during pregnancy? Pregnancy brings a whirlwind of emotions, changes, and sometimes uncertainty especially when it comes to intimacy. It's completely natural for couples to feel hesitant or concerned about whether they should continue their usual sexual activities during this special time. However, the reassuring truth is that, for most healthy pregnancies, sex is not only safe but beneficial. Maintaining intimacy can help you relax, strengthen your emotional connection, and foster deeper bonds with your partner as you navigate this exciting new journey together. What You Need to Know...
5 Must-Try Masturbation Positions for Vulva Pleasure
Posted by MARIA LOCKE

Masturbation is a beautiful way to connect with your body, explore what feels good, and discover new pathways to pleasure. But if you find yourself always reaching for the same toy in the same position, you might be missing out on sensations that different angles, pressure points, and postures can unlock. Switching things up can boost arousal, help you reach deeper orgasms, and make solo time feel fresh and exciting. This guide is all about three masturbation positions designed to enhance vulva pleasure, with a mix of clitoral and internal stimulation for next-level bliss. Position 1: Mirror Muse What is...
How to Use Anal Beads, According to Experts
Posted by MARIA LOCKE

Introduction to Anal Beads Anal beads are a type of sex toy designed specifically for anal stimulation. Typically composed of a series of connected balls or shapes, they are meant to be inserted into the anus and then removed for pleasure. These beads vary in size, material, and flexibility, catering to a wide range of preferences and experience levels. Historically, anal beads have evolved alongside the broader sex toy industry. Originally made from hard plastic or rubber, modern versions now prioritize safety, comfort, and aesthetics, utilizing body-safe materials like silicone and offering features like vibration or ergonomic designs. The Psychology...
LGBTQ+: Identity, Rights, and Representation in 2025
Posted by MARIA LOCKE

Embracing Diversity in Identity and Expression In 2025, conversations about LGBTQ+ identities are not just relevant, they are essential. As societies grow more inclusive, understanding the experiences, challenges, and contributions of LGBTQ+ individuals strengthens our collective humanity. Whether through policy reform, visibility in media, or access to affirming products, progress is being made, but there’s still more to do. Retailers like LoveStash lead by example with curated collections that affirm sexual wellness for all identities, including non-binary, transgender, lesbian, gay, bisexual, and queer communities. By providing inclusive toys, like strap-ons, prostate massagers, and gender-affirming accessories, they foster self-love and pleasure...
How Long Does an Orgasm Last? Exploring the Science and Sensation
Posted by MARIA LOCKE

Orgasms are one of life’s most delicious mysteries. They can be quick, lingering, soft, or explosive, but how long does an orgasm actually last? For many Kiwis, the answer depends on the body, the type of stimulation, and even the toy or technique involved. In this guide, we explore the science behind orgasm length, how to make them last longer, and the ways pleasure products can help you reach and extend your peak. The Science of Orgasm Scientifically speaking, an orgasm is a series of rhythmic muscle contractions, accompanied by a flood of feel-good hormones like oxytocin and dopamine. For...
The Importance of Foreplay in Enhancing Intimate Relationships
Posted by MARIA LOCKE

Introduction to Foreplay Foreplay, often overshadowed by the act of intercourse, plays a pivotal role in intimate relationships. It's not just a precursor but an essential element that sets the stage for a deeper connection, both emotionally and physically. The Purpose of Foreplay Foreplay serves multiple purposes. Beyond the physical arousal, it acts as a bridge, connecting partners mentally and emotionally. It's a time of exploration, understanding, and mutual appreciation, setting the tone for the intimacy that follows. Benefits of Foreplay Engaging in foreplay offers numerous benefits: - Enhanced Arousal: Foreplay stimulates the body, preparing it for the main event....