BONDAGE

The intimate touching in BDSM or role play during bondage increases and amplify the release Endorphins, which is anti-stress and pain relief chemicals (hormones), creating a healthier level of physical and mental wellbeing.

If you feel adventurous, or seeking new heights of that perfect erotic contentment, spice up your journey with our best collection of bondage sex toys for every stage/level of experience. From handcuffs and restraints, to spankers, crops, ticklers and floggers, or sex position aid, we choose carefully with the best interest in quality and safety in mind. Perfect for individuals (Domination and submission, or seductive power exchange) who are new or expert to BDSM world of kink and fetish and fantasies. 

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TOUGHAGE Bondage Play Kit 10 Piece
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TOUGHAGE Bed Restraint kit
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ROOMFUN Premium Nylon Shibari Bondage Rope (8m)
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TOUGHAGE Fantasy Series Bondage Tape
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Premium Hemp Bondage Rope
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YOUR HIGHNESS Chain Chest Harness
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OMYHONEY Male Chastity Cage - Spiral
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YOUR HIGHNESS Body Harness with Cuffs
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ROOMFUN Body Restraint kit
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OMYHONEY Male Chastity Cage - Banana
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YOUR HIGHNESS Sexy Leg Harness with Cuffs
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Roomfun Ostrich Feather
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Seduction Series 4 Ways Hogtie Cuff Set
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YOUR HIGHNESS Strappy Body Harness
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Master Craftsman Bondage Kit 8 Piece with Storage Bag
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YOUR HIGHNESS Bra Harness
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Master Craftsman Bondage Kit 8 Piece
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Seduction Series Arm and Leg Spreader Bars with Locking Cuffs
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Premium Zinc Alloy Handcuffs - Gun Powder
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ROOMFUN Magical Shock Therapy Kit
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Control, surrender, and everything in between - your kink, your rules

Whether you're a curious beginner or a seasoned kinkster, Lovestash’s Bondage & BDSM collection is here to take your pleasure to new, consensual heights. From soft restraints to hardcore impact play gear, our range is carefully curated to bring you excitement, trust, and intense satisfaction, solo or with a partner. Dive into this world of control, surrender, sensation, and power play with our premium, body-safe gear made for all experience levels.


🔒 Handcuffs & Restraints for Power Play

Start your exploration with our wide range of handcuffs and restraints, perfect for teasing control and exploring power dynamics. From soft, adjustable cuffs to metal handcuffs, our collection lets you play it playful or intense. Add ankle cuffs, spreader bars, or bed restraint systems to turn up the heat and create full-body surrender scenarios that keep your partner right where you want them.


🧶 Bondage Ropes, Blindfolds & Gags

For sensory exploration and elegant restraint, our bondage ropes, blindfolds, and gags offer endless creative options. Discover silky rope for beautiful shibari, breathable ball gags for submissive play, and blackout blindfolds to heighten every touch. Removing sight and sound shifts focus to sensation, intensifying every stroke, whisper, or tease.


🎁 Bondage Kits for Beginners & Explorers

Not sure where to start? Our ready-to-play bondage kits offer the perfect introduction. These pre-packed bundles include essentials like cuffs, blindfolds, floggers, and sometimes a surprise or two. Great for couples testing boundaries or anyone who wants an all-in-one experience to try BDSM without overwhelm.


🪶 Whips, Paddles, Spankers & Ticklers

Impact play combines pain, pleasure, and anticipation, and we've got the tools to do it right. Choose from leather whips, paddles, silicone spankers, or feather ticklers depending on your desired intensity. Explore soft teasing or sharp sensations. Many items include textured surfaces or dual sides for variety in every stroke.


🛋️ Sex Furniture for Positioning & Restraint

Looking to take your bondage sessions to the next level? Our versatile sex furniture helps support complex positions, deep penetration, and immersive scenes. From wedges and slings to bondage chairs and under-bed restraints, these pieces are designed for function, durability, and long-term kinky fun.


🔐 Chastity Devices for Control & Tease

Explore the ultimate in control with chastity devices. Whether you're practicing orgasm denial, long-distance power exchange, or daily submission rituals, we offer beginner-friendly and advanced cages, belts, and lockable devices. Designed for comfort, security, and psychological intensity, they’re key (literally) to deeper Dom/sub dynamics.


💗 Nipple & Clitoral Play Accessories

Ready to add some edge to your stimulation? Our nipple clamps, clit suckers, clamps, and chains enhance blood flow and sensitivity. Adjustable tension options mean you can go from light pressure to intense sensations in seconds. Pair with restraints or wear them solo, these tools tease, punish, and please in all the right ways.


⚙️ Sex Machines & Swings for Full-Throttle Play

For the truly adventurous, our sex machines and swings deliver unmatched intensity. From motor-powered thrusting machines to over-the-door and full-suspension swings, these are the ultimate tools for hands-free, gravity-defying, all-angle pleasure. Perfect for power-exchange scenes or high-level solo sessions.


Discover Your Boundaries & Go Beyond Them

Every piece in our Bondage & BDSM collection is chosen with care to ensure safety, satisfaction, and deep connection, whether you're tying up your partner for the first time or building your dream dungeon. Explore kink with confidence, creativity, and consent. All gear is shipped discreetly from our New Zealand HQ, and always curated for your pleasure and empowerment.

FAQ - Bondage & BDSM

What is Bondage & BDSM and how do I get started?
Bondage & BDSM is a form of consensual kink play that may involve restraint, dominance and submission, roleplay, or sensory stimulation. Beginners can start with soft restraints like handcuffs or bondage tape, and explore light play with blindfolds, ticklers, or paddles. Communication and consent are keydiscuss boundaries and always use safe words.
Are bondage toys safe to use for beginners?
Yes, bondage toys are safe when used correctly and consensually. For beginners, look for items with quick-release features, soft padding, and user-friendly designs like adjustable cuffs, Velcro restraints, and body-safe materials. Always prioritize comfort and start slowly.
What’s the difference between bondage ropes and restraints?
Bondage ropes are typically used for artistic or intricate restraint play like shibari or rope bondage, offering more control and creativity. Restraints, like cuffs or straps, are faster to apply and more practical for everyday kink play. Both serve the purpose of limiting movement but vary in flexibility and style.
What are essential items in a beginner bondage kit?
A good beginner bondage kit typically includes handcuffs or wrist restraints, a blindfold, a gag, a flogger or paddle, and sometimes bondage rope. These essentials allow users to explore restraint, sensory deprivation, and light impact play in a safe and structured way.
How do I choose the right flogger, paddle, or whip?
Choose based on your preferred intensity and experience level. Floggers with soft falls are gentler and ideal for beginners. Paddles offer thuddy impact and precision, while whips provide sharper stings and require more control. Material, handle comfort, and length all affect sensation.
What safety tips should I follow during BDSM play?
Establish a safe word or signal, keep communication open, and never use restraints without a quick-release option. Avoid tying around the neck or restricting blood flow. Aftercare is also importantcheck in with your partner, hydrate, and offer emotional reassurance.
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